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is it normal to not remember losing your virginity? like i remember kind of right after but that's it 😭😭
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Anonymous 5w

I lost my virginity to a man who had a gf (I had no idea, met him on bumble, and later found the gf and sent a hey girlie text (we ended up being friends actually LMAO bc I had proof of everything)) and I don’t remember a lot of it. I remember it being awkward and uncomfortable at first, I used to like it super rough so that’s what ended up happening, I don’t remember like much else though so I think if it wasn’t too enjoyable it’s not super memorable

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Anonymous 5w

like were you impaired or was it just not a memorable experience?

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Anonymous 5w

I don’t remember mine that well tbh

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Anonymous 5w

i dont remember it at all and i dont know when it happened 😭

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Anonymous 5w

Well, I guess if you 2 dated for a long time after, there were lots of times you had sex and they blended together.

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Anonymous 5w

Mine sucked so it's pretty memorable

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Anonymous 5w

sometimes u just don’t remember those brief moments. i remember mine was depressing and he said “let’s never do that again” so i can’t forget that but the sex itself was mad forgettable

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

we were both sober, and he wasn't a virgin, but all i remember is him crying after 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

crying afterwards???? girl i would remember that for the rest of my life 😭 he must’ve not have been very good

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

oh he wasn't (we ended up dating for three years) but i'm lowkey sad i don't remember losing my v card

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