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Straight women call shitty misogynistic men gay bc they refuse to acknowledge that straight white men are our oppressors
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Anonymous 12w

Gay being used as an insult aside, its really jarring to see y'all say that shit when the problem is obviously misogyny engrained in straight men's heads like it always was. Do y'all think first and second wave feminists hated gays as much as yall do?

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Anonymous 12w

i don’t think they actually think those men are gay i think they’re saying it to get on their nerves

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Anonymous 12w

Not to mention it implies theres something implicitly misogynistic ab being gay :/

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Anonymous 12w

The implication that if men don’t like women they must be gay is unfortunately untrue and doesn’t acknowledge the problem that so many men have 0 issues simultaneously hating women and wanting them as a wet hole and a maid. The fantasy of taking something from a woman and subjugating her in his life is what they get off on. Gay men don’t do that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

it also implies that respect for a woman is based in her sexual appeal to you which is itself a misogynistic idea

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Exactlyyy as if attraction to women is the only thing keeping men from being sexist

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

it’s also funny cuz like it’s not stopping them. idk why you’re blaming gay men like your boyfriend isn’t over here making the dolls uncomfortable, just because you don’t feel the effects of the bigotry of the straight men you surround yourself with doesn’t mean the rest of us don’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

wanting to have sex with women has never stopped a straight man from being sexist or a misogynistic. in fact a lot of them do it BECAUSE they want to have sex with women and to coerce them into it through control, manipulation, degradation and systemic oppression

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

Eh there is implication that they think it is at least somewhat true

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

I get they’re just trying to piss off these men, but all I think it does is dismiss and overlook a very real problem that *part* of these men’s attraction to women is the fantasy of using her at her expense. Just ignoring that and saying that they must not be attracted to women if they love to degrade them is just ignoring a major growing problem in our society that these men *incorporate* their hatred *into* their attraction.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

Big generalization, you have been brainwashed by bots online

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

which is using gay as an insult, which feeds into their toxic masculinity… it’s really not that hard to insult them based on the actual issue

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Holy shit you’re right mamacita ima stop that shit right now.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 12w

i didn’t say it wasn’t wrong, just saying that i don’t actually think they think they’re gay

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

a lot of them don’t, 100%. both of them are complicit in pushing homophobic rhetoric sadly

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