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I’ve been alone all day with my thoughts after a hookup. And I kinda feel like I was used. Any ladies know how to get past this thoughts process?
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Anonymous 1d

Take it as a learning experience! If you don’t want to feel used I wouldn’t recommend hooking up !

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Anonymous 1d

Remember to be nice to yourself. You didn’t do anything wrong, use it as a learning experience

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Anonymous 1d

Girl did you even bust?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

That’s true, i appreciate that :,)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

To add on to this, I’d recommend having a conversation about your intentions with any potential partners before doing anything! Like if you both want it to be a one time thing, that’s fine and by all means go for it! But if you guys want different things out of it, maybe stay away to avoid feeling used

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

You guys are so right. I appreciate the words. Yeah I’ll be having these conversations in the future. Thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

No but like that’s rare for me so I didn’t rly care

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Oh girl 😔 you need to care because you’ll attract men that don’t

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