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I want to date but I’m scared of men cause of past experiences and I am not attracted to women how do yall get over trauma cause I will legit go on a date and have a panic attack and have to leave… yes I’m in therapy
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Anonymous 1d

What do u and your therapist think of it?

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Anonymous 1d

Depends on the trauma :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

She said like I’ve processed everything and the only thing from here is to try and like go on dates but I visibly shake cause I’m so anxious and a lot of times that freaks guys :/

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I get that, im gay but in a similar situation due to some dv shit i dealt with :/ fortunately the good news is that the good ones will be patient. Although it feels really bad to freak ppl out by being vulnerable, its a litmus test of who will be supportive and patient

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