HEAVY agree with this, some people treat wlw as a “better alternative” to dating men, w/o acknowledging its really its own thing involving REAL PEOPLE who can have flaws. Women can be toxic and wlw relationships aren’t perfect or less work.
i can go on and on about the infantilization, sexism, homophobia, etc etc of this all but im working with a word limit here
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Anonymous1d
Right and lesbian victims always get pushed out of dv/sa discussions or assumed its "not as bad" cuz its two women
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Anonymous1d
im so tired of this discussion, i feel like sapphic relationships are seen sort of as “less valid” because of it. By making it seem perfect, victims can be dismissed, and women are demeaned again into the “angel” archetype.
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Anonymous#11d
YES THIS
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AnonymousOP1d
Like its all we are all jane doe but the nastiness ive recieved from ppl on her when i speak up about my dv and sa experiences is fucking awful