
i have spoken with someone making those claims in the past, and their sources were horrendous and didn’t even prove what they were trying to say. if u have more compelling ones, i’d listen, but if u don’t that’s fine. i don’t need to get married, a long term relationship is not necessarily a need for me, and i think u have reductive views on sex and sexuality. if ur making empirical claims i would hope u know where u got them
i’m calling ur ideals around sex reductive bc they’re extremely simplified, very all-or-nothing, and u literally called sex “gross.” u can treat sex however u want to treat it, but shaming other ppl for what they do with their bodies will never be cute. while ur at it, stop acting like u know me, my life, my sexuality, or what im going to want when im old 😭
girl who said ANYTHING abt pimping 😭 i believe that sex is a beautiful part of being human and everyone approaches it differently, which is also a beautiful part of being human. shaming others for their consensual choices is a sad thing to do. u assumed that im a straight woman who has slept with a lot of men, that one of my life goals is a long term monogamous relationship in my old age, and that i would only pursue that once im no longer young. ur correct that im a woman, but thats abt it!
okay then go be a tradwife if u want it so bad! ppl are unhappy for a variety of reasons, like how we have little connection to our communities, or our late stage capitalism economy run by the billionaire class. women were not happier when things were “traditional”, we didn’t even have no fault divorce or the ability to have our own credit cards without a man! u can have ur desires and beliefs around sex for urself and the ppl u date, but u can’t expect everyone in the world to hold them too.