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Girl Talk 4w
i get being close friends with someone but i also hate how some friends put you on a leash…like chill i love you but i’m not your gf or your dog, i’m not following your lead everywhere
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Anonymous 4w

honestly you gotta look out for signs of bossiness early on and then extract

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

yea i’ve noticed them, and i’ve tried to be chill about it. this one girl seems like she’s pissed cause i didn’t go to frat afters with her and instead went to one of my friend’s bday parties. tried to get her into the pregame to include her, but host said no so i didn’t tell her. but again, she doesn’t know them, they don’t know her and it’s my friend’s bday so 😂😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

point is i don’t think i need to make my plans known unless we agreed 100% to plans together.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Imo that situation it just depends on how close you are. If yall are decently close I would also be sad if my friend left and didn’t at least tell me why

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

we only really got to know each other this semester. i do like hanging with her, but i’m not as close to her as i am with these other friends. my other friends i’ve known for almost 3-4 years since we met from being in the same sorority so i prob sound silly saying this, but i do prioritize my friendship with these friends a little more because of the history.

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