I agree with you. also having the willingness to be protective and wanting to leep me safe. your SO should make you their #1 priority when it comes to showing you love and affection. they shouldn't do anything in secret or entertain the attention from people who are obvious flirting with them. they should study how to build your trust and live up to it. they should know your love language, how to calm you down, and how to make you happy. they shouldn't give up when a problem arises. they need to have strong communication skills. never ever let you go to bed angry. never raise their voice or hands or anything.

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well it should go both ways for both partners but ykwim

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