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The real husband hunting: get a job at an engineering company. Immediate access to a bunch of guys with stable jobs, and enough sense to be hired, and you can report them to HR if they do sus stuff.
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Anonymous 10w

this is so pathetic oh my god

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Anonymous 10w

girl what abt career hunting. retirement plan hunting. life plan and independence hunting.

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Anonymous 10w

This feels really pathetic I’m ngl

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

THANK YOU

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

If you have a job at an engineering firm, 1 and 2 are taken care of, 3 is where we’re at, 4 is just a road to loneliness. Humans are mutually dependent on each-other, trying to separate from that reliance is unhealthy. The trope of the weird guy living in the woods exists for a reason

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

right which is why we have friends and family. romantic partners are not the only relationship someone has omg

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Where did I say it was?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

when you acted like someone wanting to be independent and not look for a husband meant they were lonely and on their way to living in the woods lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

independence doesn’t even mean single, it just means not exclusively relying on others. the way u worded this read to me as if the plan was get a job at engineering firm with the sole purpose of finding a husband, find a husband, then quit/move on from that job bc the goal was completed, my b if that’s wasn’t what u meant. i also don’t like the implication that women’s careers are a means to find a man

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