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Girl Talk 7w
i observed an interesting behavior in myself today. open comments if ur interested
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Anonymous 7w

so im not a very sexual person, i dont really want to have sex and i dont think about it really ever. i dont even talk to or go out with men its just not a big part of my life at all

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Anonymous 7w

intense behaviors or risky behaviors are definitely something our brains want to do when we’re feeling really upset. that’s normal. it seems like you didn’t do it which is probably good! but i think that feeling can be normal and definitely only listen to those rational thoughts or thoughts when your head is more clear ❤️

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Anonymous 7w

Op don’t feel bad. It’s biology. Between 18 and 25 your body will start begging you to have a baby. Suddenly you’ll think babies are so cute. It’s absolutely insane but yea your body will actively try to work against your brain

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

but i had a really bad day today and while i was at peak upsetness, i found that my brain kept telling me to go to this guy’s house (who i havent talked to in 6 years) and do it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

the rationality my brain tried getting me to have was that it would make me feel better. which is so strange because objectively it would not make me feel better to lose my virginity while already having a shitty day

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

and i kept having to remember who i am and that i would absolutely hate it. and its so strange why that would even come to mind because that kind of thing is not at all natural to me im almost fully asexual

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

As an asexual, I get it— I’ve done stuff that I found zero pleasure in but it never made me feel better abt myself, have u looked into other ways to cope? Picking up a new hobby helps as an outlet too

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

this is not true wtf 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

It is literally 100% true homie

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

okay then why didn’t it happen to me or any of my friends?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

why do i still think babies look weird? why do i still hate the idea of being a mother? why are you sooooo insistent women are controlled by our hormones

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