Anonymous #1 11w

My boyfriend

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Anonymous OP 11w

is his location OFF or is service just shit?? If it’s off off thats def sketchy… but also idk I wouldn’t worry too much abt it depending on how long it’s off for. If he straight up said he’s essentially emotionally unavailable that’s def odd

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Anonymous #1 11w

No well it’s been off since yesterday but he wouldn’t cheat on me idk what he’s doing honestly he’s at a car meet

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Anonymous #1 11w

He’s not emotionally unavailable he just doesn’t get attached emotionally

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Anonymous OP 11w

Hence emotionally unavailable. Same idea. I can’t even process what a bf who doesn’t get emotionally attached even means. Like he doesn’t love you? Doesn’t feel for you?

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Anonymous #1 11w

He doesn’t miss me basically what he said he does love me

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Anonymous OP 11w

Respectfully I’m so confused

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Anonymous #2 11w

Yeah ik

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Anonymous #2 11w

He’s been through a lot

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Anonymous #2 11w

Like girl imagine him telling you at your wedding he just doesn’t miss you

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Anonymous #2 11w

Yeah ik idk

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Anonymous #3 11w

He does love me everyone has their own way

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Anonymous #3 11w

is he just ur friend u have aex with?? bc if he's emotionally unavailable then idk what else u could be getting from them

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Anonymous #3 11w

Look he does love me he’s been through a lot and I only know what and honestly many people have different ways of showing it but he does I assure you that

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Anonymous OP 11w

what do u mean emotionally unavailable then?

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Anonymous #3 11w

Like he basically said he wouldn’t miss me bc we would be in contact a lot

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Anonymous OP 11w

so it sounds like he isn't ready to be in a relationship and is stringing u along w the bare minimum

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Anonymous #3 11w

Look what yall need to get is that we both agree we see this going a long way yes he has a weird way showing his love but at the end of the day we both know we love each other and we’re not giving up on each other. Yes it’s hard me and him both been through stuff the same things

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Anonymous OP 11w

i'm glad ur feeling loved and supported. i'd just questions tht with emotionally unavailable + location off bc tht feels sus

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Anonymous #3 11w

I will for sure but unavailable I understand why and location idk ima have to ask

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Anonymous OP 11w

yea i'd definitely ask esp if it's been over a day. and i'd also want to knw what he's doing on his own to become more emotionally available in order to be there for u in every way

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Anonymous #3 11w

Honestly we’re always tg I’m just someone who has separation anxiety so that explains it

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Anonymous OP 11w

turning off ur location that's been shared this whole time isn't normal😭

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Anonymous #3 11w

Nvm ik why YALL I HAVE THE BEST MAN IN THE WORKD

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