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i dislike kids in the sense that i don’t want my own and have zero interest in pregnancy/childbirth… like i can’t imagine coming home after a stressful day to crying and screaming children. i would rather jump off a cliff 😭
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Anonymous 3w

Same. I don’t mind my nieces and my cousins kids, but when I visit them and during family events there’s nonstop noise. Also I’d feel horrible if I had a child who had a school life like I did, no matter how much of a great mother I am there’s nothing I can do to prevent depression/bullying and god forbid a chronic illness

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Anonymous 3w

Or coming home to someone screaming about chicken nuggets or repeating yelling “MOMMY” id blow my damn 🧠 out.

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Anonymous 3w

At least I can call my cats names and tell them to shut up when they’re frustrating me 💀 can’t exactly call a 4 YO a bitch for walking in front of me and tripping me. Plus, my cats play with each other all the time, so I don’t need put nearly as much effort into mentally stimulating them as I would with a developing child. It also doesn’t cost me $200/day to have someone watch them while I work

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Also, I imagine having a cat is kinda similar to having a toddler. They can’t communicate their issues that well but they have their ways, you just have to decipher it. My entire apartment is baby proofed, and they scream in the middle of the night. I just don’t have to stress about them growing up to be horrible people or emotionally traumatizing them 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

I have epilepsy so I understand how hard it is living w a chronic illness (I’ve tried medication, keto diets, brain surgery and I still have weekly seizures lol)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

REAL

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