Anonymous #1 4w

just got out of one and the break up has been so messy and painful that i honestly really envy you. :’( lowkey ruining my holiday season!

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Anonymous #2 4w

double homicide 🥸 mine didn’t break up with me but he did treat me like shit and acted like he hated me for four whole months before i eventually gave in and broke up with him because he didn’t have the guts to break up with me. then he said he wanted to be friends. went about as well as you’d expect. we don’t talk anymore as of a week ago 😍🤩 miss him an embarrassing amount!

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Anonymous OP 4w

why are they like this 😀

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Anonymous #2 4w

i literally don’t know 😀 but i’m so glad i wasted two years on a man that apparently does not care whether i live or die 😅 excited to spend the rest of this godforsaken year crying about him more so that my entire 2025 can be about him

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Anonymous OP 4w

dang i’m sorry two years is a lot of time. mine was only a month so i wasn’t too upset

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Anonymous #2 4w

😀😃😄😁😅 don’t date in college! it will literally never end well unless you have IDENTICAL life trajectories and want to do the exact same thing.

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Anonymous OP 4w

i fear i’m learning that the hard way

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Anonymous #2 4w

what i’m REALLY trying to learn is that there’s nothing wrong with being single. we as a society have such a deeply ingrained view of marriage as an end all be all, that lots of people out there have settled for relationships with someone who doesn’t make them happy. i’m proud of myself for recognizing that we weren’t happy, and couldn’t be happy the way things were going. i feel like it’s so common to see people settling for anyone just to say they have someone. i’d rather be single tbh

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