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Girl Talk 11w
I’ve been super depressed lately and idk who to even talk to. I’ve tried dropping hints to my friends without saying hey I’m depressed and not ok but no one is catching on or they think I’m joking and idk who to talk to now.
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Anonymous 11w

Sometimes it may just need to be explicitly said that you need help. People like to assume that everyone is okay and miss signs when they’re not. Schedule time with friends and maybe ask them to make sure you follow through since you have been feeling not yourself.

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Anonymous 11w

just say it

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Anonymous 11w

I’d also like to point out that sometimes relying on your friends for emotional support isn’t a 10/10 idea. Not everyone is emotionally capable or willing to have conversations like that. Is there anyone else you can talk to? Parent? Therapist?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

i’m sorry but i’m just going to be the one to say it. If you’re not willing to be there for your friends then you probably shouldn’t be their friend in the first place. Friendship is a two way street.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

100%, but I’m saying you cannot emotionally rely on someone like that. That’s unfair to you, and to them

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

Friends aren’t expected to fix the problem, but they are expected to care. If you are unwell, friends will want to know and they will want to help you OP.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

thank you i just cant with other scad students most of the time

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Scad students?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

YOU. you specifically. If you don’t go to scad. Then i’m not speaking about scad students

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Girl talk is a national group. I’m not sure what SCAD stands for, but I don’t go there.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Wait it is????? I thought this was like a subsection of my school never mind yall i don’t know anyone else’s school

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

my school just dumb asf ignore me

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