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Girl Talk 4w
Idk if this is an unpopular opinion but love should not be unconditional
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Anonymous 4w

THANK YOOOOU. I was just saying this the other day. FUCK people who say “if you love them you’d love them as they are” NAHH. I severely believe people can change. If they love ME they’d do the most minor things differently if I so badly needed them to. I’m not saying change your person, but if something is toxic to both of us?? If it’s only toxic towards me I just need admission it won’t be changing. Otherwise ✌️✌️

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Anonymous 4w

I’ve never heard this take.. but I completely agree with you girl. Yes to everything you said!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

If IIIIIII changed as a person, other people can too

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Yeah that line of thinking is how people end up in abusive relationships even and love shouldn’t make your life worse than better

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Applies to family and friends too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Entirely agree. One of the reasons I broke up w my ex

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

But how else will I fill the emptiness in my soul from my parents not loving me enough 😞 (half joking, I get what you mean)

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