I think the term avoidant has lost all meaning and most people don’t know where it comes from…it’s basically used in the equivalent way as zodiac signs. And if you say this…I fear you just don’t like the person

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I mean yes independent girls can very much no longer be independent when dating someone but that’s fine and normal. The I had big dreams b4 I “tied myself to you” sounds like you shouldn’t be with them tbh

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