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I need brutal honesty, I have a friend who I feel consistently takes advantage of me in small ways but I’m nervous to speak up. I dont know how, I dont want to be labeled as a “hater”. Im genuinely struggling on how to communicate. —>
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Anonymous 5w

The small things like asking to hang out but then we end up completing whatever chores they had lined up, discreetly badgering me for rides through innocent texts like “are you busy” and “how are you doing”. They truly are a good friend in every other way it counts, until small blindsides like this happen and I dont know how to address it. In the moment? Sit down and have a talk? Please help I feel like im going through psychosis trying to be nice but not a push over!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Also important to mention its been 2+ years and YES I have kinda said something but I never pushed it to be rude.

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