Different guys/ dates. That’s the entire point of dating. I’m very monogamous and I hate situation ships, so the best way to take myself out of the situation ship equation is to not put my all into one person at first until they show me that I should. You can easily say to your other dates that you enjoyed your time but dont think it’ll work out. I used to only focus on one person and gave it like all the care I had but I set myself up doing that. I just got hurt when they didn’t act the way I y

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The way I thought they would*. I never waited for them to give me a reason to put that much care into them, when I should’ve. If that makes sense.

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different guys and dates then narrow down

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for me personally i’ll message multiple people on dating apps at the same time but if two guys want to go on a date i choose one cause i can’t keep up with both

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