Girl Talk on Sidechat | Does anyone have issues w their bf not being able to read a room? Like I was up all night due to nightmares (he knows this), and when his alarm goes off at 5am he legit asks me “do you wanna go a round?” Like bffr???

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Does anyone have issues w their bf not being able to read a room? Like I was up all night due to nightmares (he knows this), and when his alarm goes off at 5am he legit asks me “do you wanna go a round?” Like bffr???

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Anonymous 4w

Girl…. That’s insane. You should have a talk with him about that because what the actual fuck was going through his mind to even suggest that???

Anonymous 4w

My bf is autistic and can’t read a room to save his life but he can always read ME and I think there’s a very concerning disconnect that your bf specifically can’t read you (and/or he actually can read you just fine but places more emphasis on getting off than on your emotional wellbeing)

Anonymous 4w

That man does not value you.

Anonymous 4w

The issue isn’t that he can’t read a room, it’s that he has absolutely no respect for you at all

Anonymous 4w

go a round? im picking up clues from the comments but what does he mean by that?

Anonymous 4w

well what was his tone

Anonymous 4w

he just dont give a fuck about you especially if it happens multiple times

Anonymous

#3 4w

He thinks asking is better than making advances (which I agree) but cmon read the room a little bit😭 I will be talking to him when he gets back from work

Anonymous

#4 4w

I am concerned as well. I forgot to add the detail that we are long distance and this is the most time we’ve spent together consecutively. Could that possibly be part of it?

Anonymous

OP 4w

No that’s worse imo. idgaf how blue his balls are, he should care about you as a person. When me n my bf were long distance, we sometimes didn’t hook up at all when we saw each other in person because i needed time to reacclimate and get comfortable

Anonymous

#4 4w

whatever guys it’s about communication

Anonymous

#4 4w

You make a good point. I just worry abt how to go abt this. I’m not worried abt safety or anything but properly communicating the subject is my problem. Regardless the conversation needs to be had

Anonymous

#6 4w

sex

Anonymous

#7 4w

ah. yea. big issue that should be talked about, if not heard out, probs reconsiders relationship because that’s… insane

Anonymous

#9 4w

theres always a time and a place

Anonymous

OP 4w

Dudes will shoot their shot no matter what. In his mind, he probably thought it would help

Anonymous

#10 4w

excuses excuses