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I can’t wait until my mom leaves my dad 😭 he’s really a bum who contributes nothing I can’t wait until he’s alone

Anonymous 4d

my dad is such a bum but my parents are religious so my mom will never ever leave him and refers to him as the head of the household. it makes me mad because i don’t understand how she can see women as less than equal to men and have daughters. he told her when they got married that she had to make his bed and do his laundry bc his mom used to, and he makes her clean up his TRASH of all things. he can’t even throw it away! i’ve resented him for years

Anonymous 4d

In my family, it’s the opposite. I wish my dad would finally leave my mom. She’s manipulative, abusive (in several ways), controlling, and jealous. And she’d rather have him lose his job than allow him to have anything for himself.

Anonymous

#1 4d

What that’s insnae! I’m so sorry. Mine isn’t like that, it’s more so lack of resources and money, but she just has to get away from him. She can’t grow at all. Are you going to move away from him?

Anonymous

OP 4d

idk it’s complicated bc like…he’s my dad. i know he really loves all of us, and he has pretty bad mental health issues like depression and ocd and autism. but the way he acts frustrates me so much. right now, just living at my apartment and visiting sometimes is enough space for me, but i do try to encourage my mom not to do stuff for him he can do himself and support her

Anonymous

#1 4d

Yeah I get that. I think once I move it’ll be different. I mainly just hate the why he treats my mom and I want her to know. She deserves the best. My dad has undiagnosed mental issues but I don’t think I can forgive him. His loss tho

Anonymous

OP 4d

i know it’s seriously impacted how i look at marriage tbh. like i can’t imagine marrying a man and he ends up being like that and treats me like some servant. i really cannot date a man unless he’s going above and beyond for me the way i do for him. that’s why im single rn bc my last bf stopped putting in effort and i had to cut him loose. so idk

Anonymous

#1 4d

Yeah same. I’ve never had a bf actually bc I was worried about getting my life together first

Anonymous

OP 4d

i’ve had three. the first one was an absolute angel to me. he would make me origami hearts and handwritten letters and stuff and when we grew apart we stayed friends. second one was an absolute sleazeball and got frustrated and annoyed when i asked for very little (like food when i was hungry at his place). third one was my first serious relationship. he started out really kind and thoughtful, but he started acting like the second and that was my sign to go

Anonymous

#2 4d

maybe marriage is a trap….i feel like as soon as people are stuck in that kind of commitment, unless they’re both really really in love and self sacrificing,they see it as like a prison sentence and feel like they have to either check out or have the upper hand