That’s unfortunate but I think he handled it pretty well. He was direct about his intentions and the reasoning, and didn’t lash out or attack you over it
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Anonymous#14w
He was really really sweet but I hope he finds someone that isn’t shy all the time or nervous around people tho!
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AnonymousOP4w
And I hope you find your right fit, too!
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Anonymous#14w
He was my type too :( ugh why I gotta be shy and nervous around meeting new people 😓
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AnonymousOP4w
Honestly exposure therapy helped me a lot with that
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AnonymousOP4w
I will say, I was such a shy introvert when I met my fiancé. He really brought out the social butterfly in me in the best way possible. But, obviously not everyone has that in them and you’re not obligated to change for any reason
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Anonymous#14w
I mean he could bring that out of me but I guess he didn’t wanna scare me away
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Anonymous#24w
Yea but I overthink everything a lot so I don’t want his friends to hate me
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AnonymousOP4w
Awww I get that. I worried about that a lot, too. Whatever happens just make sure it’s what you want :) it’s pretty clear you aren’t sacrificing your comfort for other people which is great
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Anonymous#14w
I’m a people pleaser so I get really scared if someone doesn’t like me or something