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Anonymous 4w

That’s unfortunate but I think he handled it pretty well. He was direct about his intentions and the reasoning, and didn’t lash out or attack you over it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

He was really really sweet but I hope he finds someone that isn’t shy all the time or nervous around people tho!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

And I hope you find your right fit, too!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

He was my type too :( ugh why I gotta be shy and nervous around meeting new people 😓

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Honestly exposure therapy helped me a lot with that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I will say, I was such a shy introvert when I met my fiancé. He really brought out the social butterfly in me in the best way possible. But, obviously not everyone has that in them and you’re not obligated to change for any reason

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I mean he could bring that out of me but I guess he didn’t wanna scare me away

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Yea but I overthink everything a lot so I don’t want his friends to hate me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Awww I get that. I worried about that a lot, too. Whatever happens just make sure it’s what you want :) it’s pretty clear you aren’t sacrificing your comfort for other people which is great

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I’m a people pleaser so I get really scared if someone doesn’t like me or something

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