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can we please stop infantilizing those who haven’t had sex yet
1974 upvotes, 32 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "can we please stop infantilizing those who haven’t had sex yet"
23 years no dih 💔
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Anonymous 19w

Also that’s weird thing to say if you want to fuck somebody (which I’m assuming is where this guy was going)

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Anonymous 19w

No fr like just because im a virgin doesn’t I dont wanna fuck or do sexual things.

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Anonymous 19w

I am a virgin but that doesn’t mean I am innocent

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Anonymous 19w

Is this safe place to say I'm a virgin with high standards and an active twt account

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Anonymous 19w

Exactly. Like immature teenagers have sex all the time, that doesn’t make them mature all of a sudden.

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Anonymous 19w

right like when i was a virgin i was the freakiest one outta all my friends… LMAO

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Anonymous 19w

Fr… like, I want to wait till marriage and I get SOOO much shit for it

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Anonymous 19w

icks me out so bad

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Anonymous 19w

Exactly. We’re still fully grown adults at the end of the day and have a lot of other adult experiences under our belt by now

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Anonymous 19w

no bc i’m literally 18 and sometimes i feel so behind and left out whenever my friends talk about it but then i realize i’m literally just 18

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Anonymous 19w

it all has to do with purity culture i hate it

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Anonymous 19w

As a 19year old virgin I agree my sisters refuse to speak to me about certain things even if it isn’t about sex. Saying im not old enough and it pisses me off

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Anonymous 19w

I’m probably always gonna be a virgin bc sex is gross to me

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Anonymous 19w

That’s kind of pathetic of that guy (assuming guy) because like- ok I’m not a virgin. So what? Why does that mean I’m not innocent? Why does it mean a strong and probably willing 23 year old is innocent just because she hasn’t let someone do it? Like nah, girl be proud of it

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Anonymous 19w

what an odd thing to say…

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Anonymous 19w

Bro I’m 22 and waiting for marriage but I get busier in the other ways than most of my non-virgin friends… no intercourse doesn’t immediately make you innocent, that’s such purity culture bs and so condescending and nasty. Like creating this image that you’re untainted somehow bc u haven’t had sex? EW. And WHY IS HE ON GIRL TALK??? Be proud of your virginity bb, not bc it makes you pure but bc it means you have high standards and don’t do the pregnancy-risking shit with ppl who don’t deserve it.

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Anonymous 19w

they always find it so hot too like no you’re gross

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Anonymous 19w

As a lady 😅 I’ve said this too many times (but not in a wanna get in your pants way just in a aww I’m happy that you’ve never done it save it for the best lover type over way)

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Anonymous 19w

I hate that stupid emoji

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Anonymous 19w

there’s an innocence to it tho…

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19w

😂😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 19w

I never wanted to have sex until after I turned 18 bc I don’t want to think back to sexual memories and it’s just me in hs young asf😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 19w

no yea that makes sense. plus i have a friend who said she rushed it just to do it and regretted it

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 19w

yea having sex is a mature thing to do or be a part of but it doesn’t make u mature i think

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 19w

It depends on the context. If you’re a reckless teen it’s not mature. If you’re a grown adult in a committed relationship and having safe sex, it’s more mature.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 19w

i mean the act itself but yes lol we agree

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19w

Real

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19w

This - if people saw my AO3 history 👀

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 19w

How I feel! Mental I’m a slut only in reality am I unexperienced 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 19w

As if teens and young adults aren’t like the horniest people on the planet because of their hormones 💀💀💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 19w

Having sex is a normal adult activity that you’re capable of doing maturely or immaturely. Calling the act a “mature thing to do” is where I disagree.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 19w

yes fair enough, it just should be done maturely

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