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my biggest pet peeve is straight women saying they wish they could be attracted to women when they’re talking about how shitty men are. like damn just stop dating them!
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Anonymous 2d

yeah it’s also like super gross and dismissive to say that lesbian relationships are “taking the easy way out” and completely missing the point to still center men and your feelings about men and relationships with men when talking about relationships with other women.

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Anonymous 2d

everytime a straight woman tells me they wish they were attracted to women i say “dont look at me i’ll treat you worse” i wont but they dont need to know that tbh dating women sucks ass sometimes its not all fun and games

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Anonymous 2d

dont say you wish you could date a woman because that heartbreak is soulcrushing like genuinely it sucks so bad getting broken up with someone who is wayyy more emotionally mature than a man could ever be

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Anonymous 2d

sorry op i didnt realize i was mad about this this morning until i crashed out in your comments

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

no fr! like yes i love women and i love being a lesbian i wouldn’t change it for anything etc etc but that doesn’t mean dating is any easier 😭😭 it’s just so weird when straight women say that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

😭😭 feel your feelings queen

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

exactlyyyyy omg 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

ok wait i actually thought about it and i think i know why it bothers me. it feels so trivializing and almost weirdly fetishizing to have a straight women treat gay relationships that way bc none of its genuine. like she doesn’t actually think of them as ‘real’ relationships it’s just a funny little thing she can say when she’s sick of men. omg

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

THANK YOUUUUUUU EXACTLY!!!

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