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AITA For refusing to go out with someone who has a nut allergy? I’m vegan and eat a lot of nuts/seeds and peanuts he is deathly allergic it wouldn’t work I told him, he didn’t care and thanked me for not wasting his time However I was called a bitch 😔😭
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Anonymous 2w

Bro literally said thank you, because it was also important for him to date someone who was willing to give these things up

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Anonymous 2w

I’m vegan because I’m allergic to dairy from animals and I don’t like meat texture

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Anonymous 2w

not the asshole. he's a weirdo

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Anonymous 2w

That’s like a fundamental incompatibility. Sure you could probably make it work but it would be an unreasonable expectation to completely alter your lifestyle for someone else that you have no responsibility to.

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Anonymous 2w

You can’t give up nuts because of your dairy allergy, he can’t be around nuts because of his allergy. You two just have incompatible dietary restrictions and you were upfront about that. The person who called you a bitch is jealous you and him are capable of having an adult conversation about it.

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Anonymous 2w

Not the asshole. You’re literally looking out for both of your wellbeing

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

He didnt call me a bitch, someone else did

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

oh then that persons a weirdo

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