Girl Talk on Sidechat | She is coming at me for my job as a teacher while she is prioritizing “her looks for men.” She wants to be dependent on a man. I don’t understand some people, you don’t want to be dependent on a man.

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Girl Talk 17h

She is coming at me for my job as a teacher while she is prioritizing “her looks for men.” She wants to be dependent on a man. I don’t understand some people, you don’t want to be dependent on a man.

Anonymous 17h

She has to prioritize the outside because it’s clear the inside is rude and rotten.

Anonymous 16h

If you look good as a woman, you can get with any man you want. I can target good looking Hispanic, Latino, or Indian men that are doctors. Indian men like us Latina girls more than they like Indian girls. They will pick up the tab without hesitation.

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Anonymous

#1 16h

I don’t abuse my siblings

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Anonymous

#2 16h

You are wrong, they will just try to hook up most of the time. You don’t know anything about Indian men. You really don’t know what you are talking about, the families vet a girls attitude and personality hard. They will try to hook up but most wouldn’t want to date seriously.

Anonymous

#2 16h

If your only comeback is something that they worked out months ago then you have nothing to say. If you want to maintain your looks for men you should learn to keep your mouth shut more so they won’t see how truly horrible your personality is

Anonymous

#1 16h

I have a great personality but I don’t like abusive people.

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Anonymous

#2 16h

Really, cause you’re sure not sharing it here. Get a life outside the internet and grow the fuck up. You don’t get to sit here and act morally superior when you have not experienced the real world and have no concept of nuance. Mind your own business and don’t go on hours long tantrums. Those aren’t attractive to the men you want to be with.

Anonymous

#1 16h

I work out and get 15k steps a day, also prioritize my skin health. The best roi we can get as women is our looks so we can choose any man we want.

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Anonymous

#2 16h

No you shouldn’t be dependent on a man, we got more freedom as we got more educated and are able to stand on your own feet.

Anonymous

#2 16h

Any man that’s only going to be with you for your looks and nothing else won’t want to hear what you have to say, period. You should learn to get used to it

Anonymous

#1 16h

The reality of the situation is they will all try to bait and hookup but they only really marry into other similar families. Men def try to hookup but men aren’t gonna marry you just because you look good.

Anonymous

#1 16h

Looks are important but my brother literally turns down Rutgers, UConn, fordham, UD, and Temple girls on dating apps. Men aren’t stupid, they sniff you out and will play along with it for the hookup. My brother doesn’t date a girl if she doesn’t go to a prestigious school, you don’t understand men.

Anonymous

OP 16h

There are a few that do but they want trophy wives that they’ll dump the second she stops being “pretty” enough for him. Those are the ones that don’t care about anything beyond the superficial. No matter which way you slice it though looks is not a career plan

Anonymous

#2 16h

That’s literally not true

Anonymous

OP 15h

If you look pretty like Alicia Schmidt, guys aren’t gonna turn you down for going to a state university or a community college. They will be excited to date, wouldn’t they?

Anonymous

#2 15h

Alicia Schmidt went to the Fresenius University of Applied Sciences

Anonymous

#2 15h

That’s a private school

Anonymous

#1 15h

She’s an athlete, I don’t think guys care about the uni you went to over your looks

Anonymous

#2 15h

The point is she still went to a fairly prestigious college and she’s an athlete. She can get any man because she doesn’t need one. She’s independent. Your plan is to be completely dependent on a man with no back up plan. You and Alicia are not the same

Anonymous

#1 15h

Forget Alicia, if you look good men would provide for you. I don’t think men care about the prestige of your uni, I’m in a CC rn. I might just get the associates.

Anonymous

#2 15h

The point about what men care about, it’s that you want her brother, who she has told you repeatedly only cares about prestige. Good on you to have a back up plan though, relying on your looks only works as long as you have them.

Anonymous

#1 14h

I don’t care about him, there are so many men out there that are in med school hehehe

Anonymous

#2 14h

Ok gold digger

Anonymous

#1 13h

It’s called being smart, I can do something with an associates and let the man do the heavy lifting

Anonymous

#2 13h

That’s gold digging

Anonymous

#2 13h

It’s not smart, you are reliant on a hardworking man to overcompensate for you. You can be a gym instructor or talk about career growth but no, I see you focusing on the wrong things. Men sniff this well, they are desperate to get laid but they wouldn’t want to marry you if you are like that. You are still very young just remember that.