
Independence is dumb. We all need friend groups that divide and conquer based on strengths and interests. I also plan most of the events/bdays and do most of the long day drives (bc my car is electric) and one of my friends assembles all of our furniture and does house stuff and cooks. Another guy does all the night driving like a permanent DD. Another friend does all the cocktails/tarot readings/hosts all the really large parties a couple times per year. We all split airport drop off/pickup