
She made the wrong cookie recipe and I was upset because she had done it before. There are so many things that hurt cause if my mom put just a few more minutes to consider me it would mean a lot to me, but she repeatedly doesn't do it and it just feels worse every single time she does it
Like, she picked a restaurant with barely any vegan options for my grad dinner after my ceremony even though I had been a vegan since high school. I had to eat an onion and squash on a kebab while every else ate full meals because she couldn't have taken a few minutes to actually look up a restaurant I could eat at
Its not an issue of the recipe being similar enough. It’s that I had spent YEARS making that specific recipe, resending her the link for it, and telling it to her every Christmas, but when I wasn't there to remind her she didn't remember it when she said she would go ahead and make the cookies I liked for Christmas