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“I miss my boy” but he is a fully grown man and you are a fully grown woman. You call him a boy to absolve him of responsibility for hurting you, but he calls you a girl to infantilize you and belittle your capabilities and thoughts.
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Anonymous 50w

idk, personally I don’t think it’s always bad sometimes it’s just cute and silly stuff

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 50w

sometimes I call him my boy and he refers to me as “my girl” as a nickname occasionally but we’re still capable of having a healthy and mature relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 50w

I agree, often it’s cute and endearing. But you’ll know when it’s no longer cute and when it starts being used to guilt and avoid accountability

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 50w

oh yeah of course

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 50w

In my case he kept insisting that he was “just a boy” when he hurt me and I think that’s ridiculous. He was just as much of an adult age wise as I was — so why is it that I can accept the consequences of my actions but he believes he doesn’t have to?

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