Girl Talk on Sidechat | okay girls help me out: My bf is roughly an hr away from me and we’re both in college. He constantly says he is busy and cant come over. I haven’t seen him in over a month. Every weekend him and his friends go out to the bars etc am i right to be upset?

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Girl Talk 1d

okay girls help me out: My bf is roughly an hr away from me and we’re both in college. He constantly says he is busy and cant come over. I haven’t seen him in over a month. Every weekend him and his friends go out to the bars etc am i right to be upset?

Anonymous 1d

breakup worthy

Anonymous 1d

yes girl you’re valid. my boyfriend has a full time job + does school full time and still makes time to drive an hour to my house to spend time with me. depending on his schedule it’s 1-3 times a week. I’m sorry, but this seems like a priority issue. I think you guys definitely need to talk about your feelings about this

Anonymous 1d

i know you don’t wanna hear this but you truly deserve better than that. he is making time to go out he could make time for you 1000% don’t let him make excuses for it. he should atleast bring you over to go out with him if he just wants to be with his friends. please baby leave this relationship and find someone who will prioritize you no matter what their schedule is.

Anonymous 1d

Hes more committed to his friends it seems to me like he wants to be with his friends so I would say let and be free Angel

Anonymous 1d

There is more but i ran out of characters to type. Thats pretty much the gist of it though.

Anonymous 1d

yes

Anonymous 1d

Why not go see him, my gf and I both travel 2h each way to see each other. I will go 2h to sleep with her for 6h, and then get up at 4:40 to catch the train back for my 8am

Anonymous

#2 1d

we have been tg for 3 years🥀

Anonymous

#3 1d

he is flooded with work during the week (architecture major with 4 hr classes every day) and says his weekends his only time to relax. i feel bad because it seems so stressful but idk how to let him know its straining our relationship 😣

Anonymous

OP 1d

if he has time to go out and to the bar then he has time to hangout with you, yall could just stay in and chill together, trust me IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD

Anonymous

#2 1d

ur so right im literally under spells

Anonymous

#4 1d

wait ur funny asf

Anonymous

#5 1d

my only this is that he does prioritize me and has for the past 3 yrs… i cant see myself with anyone else. i just dont know where this is coming from☹️

Anonymous

OP 1d

it’s college babe, people change, sorry queen

Anonymous

#2 1d

thank u for ur advice i appreciate u more than yk🫶🏼

Anonymous

#6 1d

see thats the thing… im in LI and he is in brookyln. He has his car, i dont. He isnt comfortable with me taking the train/subway by myself (cuz yk crazies in nyc) so he says he will drive to me. I also have anxiety abt the nyc subways idk why

Anonymous

OP 1d

I’m in bos, so it’s a bit better fs. But I always make sure she has a small knife and pepper spray. She let her cousin use her car for college since my gf don’t need it really and I don’t have a car either (my mom sold it). And we do Okay