Anonymous birthcontrolfairy 21h

birth control is really bad for your body!

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Anonymous #3 21h

no actually cause …

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Anonymous #1 21h

girl get tf out of girl talk w this birth control fear mongering on a SECOND post

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Anonymous #5 21h

ah yes bc pumping your body full of bioengineered hormones is good for someone!

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Anonymous #1 21h

This is an extremely dangerous generalization to make. Every medication requires a risk to benefit analysis between an individual and their doctor. Birth control can be very good, even life saving, for some bodies.

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Anonymous birthcontrolfairy 20h

it’s really not. if you look at the recent studies between POTS, and other heart issues you will see that there is a strong link between BC and these conditions. it’s the fact that people are OKAY taking stuff that is bioengineered, then wonder why they have all these conditions, that’s why you don’t take drugs from medical corporations. it’s all a money grab, eventually you will have something you have to be seen for, that’s how they make money.

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Anonymous #1 20h

girl no one on this fucking post is asking for this opinion

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Anonymous #5 20h

when you have health issues later on, don’t say i didn’t tell you so❤️.

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Anonymous #1 20h

Again, individual risk:benefit analysis between a person and their doctor. Pregnancy holds far more risks than birth control and makes far more money for corporations.

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Anonymous birthcontrolfairy 20h

again incorrect, it doesn’t. i think you need to do some medical research love.

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Anonymous #1 20h

Lol you’re funny. You really don’t need a platform to spread this harmful rhetoric on so I’ll be blocking you now. Please find the time to discuss your concerns with a qualified medical professional who is paid enough to chat and debunk your conspiracy theories. Bye.

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Anonymous #1 20h

no thank u the whole purpose of me getting a painful ass iud is so i can be a twinkie. if i somehow got pregnant god is taking full custody #fuckthemkids

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Anonymous #6 20h

an iud doesn’t stop pregnancy, the percentage isn’t 100%

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Anonymous #1 20h

what do you do to prevent pregnancy?

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Anonymous #3 20h

No trust, like it was a fun experience but IDK man

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Anonymous #5 20h

that’s kinda what I meant! I don’t take it consistently , like different hours and sometimes I forget soooo

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Anonymous birthcontrolfairy 20h

I want options , YES

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Anonymous #1 20h

my iud is more than 99% effective😮‍💨 even tho it’s incredibly unlikely to conceive i have mifepristone and misoprostol in my cabinet. it’s totally reasonable to get on birth control and want to be nut in. birth control is designed and tested to prevent pregnancy even if your partner ejaculates inside you * every time *

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Anonymous #6 20h

this might be a stupid question, but is there like a specific iud

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Anonymous #6 20h

it also increases your risk of having an ectopic pregnancy if you get pregnant, so you letting him nut in your even tho you have an IUD is on you lol. btw ectopics can kill you very easily if not found in a reasonable amount of time. you’re literally setting yourself up for pregnancy if you willingly let him nut in you even on bc. pls don’t reproduce with your mindset.

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Anonymous OP 19h

there’s a lot of different types, like non hormonal/copper and hormonal ones

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Anonymous OP 19h

different hours is still fine as long as ur taking it

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Anonymous #1 19h

per year, there is less than a 1% chance of me getting pregnant with an IUD, and if I did get pregnant, there’s about a 95% chance it wouldn’t be ectopic. i also take monthly pregnancy tests just to be safe so any pregnancy would be caught very early. for me, that very small risk is worth it to have an enjoyable sex life. i’m sorry if birth control caused problems for you but it’s okay for you to personally be against it without demonizing birth control

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Anonymous OP 19h

someone else answered but there is also an arm implant, where i live it’s called nexplanon. that might be an option worth checking out. i love long-acting, reversible contraceptive!!

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Anonymous #5 19h

really?! im sorry my lack of sex ed is kinda showing

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Anonymous OP 19h

Okay so it sounds like you’re currently on a daily pill, which is hard to keep up with. You could try a patch, which is like a sticker that’s changed weekly; a ring, which is like a silicone hairtie that you insert like a tampon and change monthly. And then there are LARCs, which are administered by a healthcare provider. IUDs last 3-10 years, Nexplanon is 5. There’s also the shot, but I wouldn’t jump for that first. Do any of those sound better?

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Anonymous OP 19h

girl you’re okay, promise

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Anonymous OP 19h

you don’t need to apologize for being anxious

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Anonymous #5 19h

To an extent… combo pills, which is what most people use, can be taken +/-12 hours and still be effective. Most mini pills are +/-3 hours. OP which pill are you using?

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Anonymous birthcontrolfairy 19h

I googled and it says mini, 0.35 of norethindrone per tablet

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Anonymous OP 19h

There’s still no need to worry because the condom was your first layer of protection and it didn’t fail, but that pill is one that’s important to take in that +/-3 hour window or effectiveness is compromised. With love, you would def be a good candidate for a lower maintenance method! Lord knows I wouldn’t be able to keep up with a pill either.

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Anonymous birthcontrolfairy 19h

I’ll def keep this in mind and bring it up at my next appointment

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Anonymous birthcontrolfairy 19h

reminder than condoms are not 100% effective prevention so you can’t say for sure it did not fail. i’m not fear mongering, just trying to add since some people may not know that just bc a condom didn’t break or slip doesn’t mean it’s impossible to conceive :)

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Anonymous #3 18h

Absolutely, but there is no evidence of a failure and the failure rate without a visible break is very low. I always encourage taking a test 21 days after sex for a definitive result. It’s important to balance the reality that nothing is 100% effective with the concurrent reality of the circumstances.

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Anonymous #8 11h

sex for 5 years with my boyfriend who pulls out and we’ve never had an issue - and if that makes you nervous then yay condoms! but the plan B wasn’t necessary and will likely cause more pain and discomfort than any sort of help

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Anonymous #8 11h

thank you so much, I really appreciate it

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Anonymous OP 11h

no problem! if you need anything else feel free to reach out, and congrats on your first time and that it was fun!

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