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jus got a vibrator n using it reminded me i now need a strap.. as a bi girl who threw away her toys bc of a straight ex bf being intimidated by it it’s time i come back to the fun side of my sexuality (actually being gay)
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Anonymous 1w

FUCK your ex for making u feel that way

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Anonymous 1w

As a fellow bi girl my solution was getting a bi bf and that’s worked out pretty well

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Anonymous replying to -> hooters 1w

hundreds of dollars of sex toys out the window bc of that man 🫪🫪 and i’m over here thinkin he was the one like HUUUUH he was absolutely not

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

this is lookin like the best solution OR just being with girls only forever because muah muah i love women

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

the bi girl to lesbian pipeline is very real and almost always the answer

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Anonymous replying to -> hooters 1w

Hey lowkey that’s incredibly biphobic and you shouldn’t say that

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Anonymous replying to -> hooters 1w

it’s really really looking that way. men can be attractive but women… women can be so much more. i fear i may be a stereotype, zero original experiences over here fr

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

i dont think they meant it in a biphobic way at all lol it’s just a joke ab how bi to full gay is real and that’s how a lot of gay people figure it out 😭😭🫪

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

you can’t ‘choose’ to be a lesbian. youre either a lesbian or you like men. pretending like its a choice does nothing but harm actual lesbians by making it seem like they actually can like men. like literally three comments ago youre talking about getting with men again

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

how? a lot of girls that talk about their journey say that they started as bi and later on realized they were lesbian

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Anonymous replying to -> hooters 1w

bc she’s literally talking about getting with a man in the comment you replied to 😭 it just comes across as trivializing lesbianism

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

my bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

i took it as a joke… also.. i wasn’t talkin about getting w a man.. i was mostly talkin about getting a strap bc i DONT need a man 😭😭 sorry tho i thought it was funny

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Anonymous replying to -> hooters 1w

Saying that bi girls “almost always” end up being lesbians is gross and both biphobic and lesbophobic. A bi girl that ends up in a long term relationship with a woman was not actually a lesbian all along. A lesbian who dated a man before realizing she was a lesbian was not bi and got turned. Work on your internalized homophobia.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

yeah idk what the issue is tbh, but i so dont feel like arguing rn so

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

thats not what i said or meant at all???? there's a lot of ppl who begin their journey thinking their bi, that's literally all im saying

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

then what did you mean when you said getting with a bisexual man was the best solution 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

also crazy i’m getting downvoted for saying you can’t choose to be a lesbian

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

are u like lowkey just projecting rn?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

who knows bro

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Anonymous replying to -> hooters 1w

The way that you are phrasing it is bad. You literally said, and I quote, “bi girl to lesbian pipeline is almost always the answer”. That is implying that bi girls are actually secret lesbians. Which is not true and biphobic. Girl. Think about the words you say before you say them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

if i am w a man him being bi is probably the best solution lmfaoo. there’s really no true best solution i fear but like, jus gotta be more picky in my future

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