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Girl Talk 12w
Why is it every time I like a guy / want someone to hook me up it’s “I don’t think they swing like that” every time. Even if I explain that I literally don’t date gay men (literally not a man) I just get “yeah but like, you know” I’m mtf but femme, tf…
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Anonymous 12w

I get that I’m not some people’s cup of tea and that’s fine. But essentially implying that the men I date are gay is disrespectful in itself since they date other men and that’s the opposite of what I present, live, and attempt to be perceived as

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Anonymous 12w

everyone has a preference and everyone isnt going to like everyone. best of luck ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Like its already tough enough to hear that but then for it to be a guy who was otherwise normal then reveals hes actually been like that the whole time :( im sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Fr. It’ll suck even more when I ask for help getting their interest and I hear that stuff from people I’m asking. I’m one of the girls until it comes to that and then it’s “well, yk. And I don’t mean anything by and I’m not trying to be mean”. I get it’s the situation but it doesn’t need put front and center every time

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