Anonymous #1 1w

nah nah this is the catch: you have to be WITH them. no idiot is just gonna send you money for this stuff unless they’re really REALLY down bad and that’s got some safety concerns with it then. the key to getting dinner and drinks paid for is to just talk to them. they’re paying for the pleasure of your company. you’re never gonna find a guy willing to just give you money for absolutely NOTHING. most girls you see making money from random old men venmoing them are prob sending nudes etc

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Anonymous #2 1w

they use us for sex and social status

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Anonymous #2 1w

but lemme know when they pick you and have fun paying 50/50 for bills and car payments forever

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Anonymous OP 1w

what is that saying about an eye for an eye again? or maybe the one about assuming negative intent based only on gender or other biological and unchanging characteristics? once you get into “well they [fill in the blank] so it’s okay when I [blank] ones I don’t actually know” on either side, you lose. both are shallow and embarrassing.

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Anonymous #2 1w

i’m not marrying a man who can’t pick up the tab at dinner. if you would, then you do you. 🥱 it’s just not something i’d ever consider in a person i’m expected to procreate with. let’s not pretend like men don’t have it easier than women. least they could do is buy a drink

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Anonymous OP 1w

never said I want men who can’t pay, just that going into anything with the specific intention of USING a man for money is trashy. pls read before typing lol. also my man manages getting all the tabs and a 3 ct rock for me so i think im good actually :)

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Anonymous #2 1w

then i’m trashy

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Anonymous OP 1w

exactly ty for understanding

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Anonymous #2 1w

idk how ur sitting here shaming women for having men pay for their shit when you’re having your shit paid for by a man. it’s like you’re actually just mad we don’t have just one man paying for it like you. sorry not everyone is happy playing trad wife at the age of 19

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Anonymous OP 1w

again my point isn’t that men paying for your shit is bad. it’s that deliberately being with a man with the specific purpose of using him for money is fucked. absolutely fine to have your shit paid for, just not by being a manipulative shit

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Anonymous OP 1w

also what the hell is this “I’m playing trad wife” bit? you say you want a man who pays, make fun of me for not having one and then when you find out I do have one you backtrack and decide having one is also bad? pick a side and stick to it, it feels like you’re jut arguing to argue and not paying attention at all

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Anonymous #2 1w

alls fair in love and war. til it’s safe for women to walk home alone at night, until women make as much as men do, and until people stop telling women that the only path in their life is to end up with a man and take care of him, i’m gonna keep on letting them pay. cry about it 😻

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Anonymous OP 1w

don’t need to cry, im satisfied enough knowing your shallowness will make sure you’re unable to find happiness in a relationship because you don’t deserve it

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