Girl Talk on Sidechat | I have a dilemma. In the future I will be the breadwinner(engineer) in my relationship. I want kids but if I can’t spend as much time with them because I have to work and provide them should I reconsider having kids?

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Girl Talk 3w

I have a dilemma. In the future I will be the breadwinner(engineer) in my relationship. I want kids but if I can’t spend as much time with them because I have to work and provide them should I reconsider having kids?

Anonymous 3w

Maybe! I’m sure there’s ways to get around it (like working at a place with frequent time off or PTO) and even full time workers make time for their kids ^^

Anonymous 3w

It all depends on the Job you have/want and all the things you are willing to put down for it, also items like where you live, housing situations, what do you want for the kids and is it realistically possible to do while working X amount of time to find the lifestyle you set out. Some places are great, example mt ex has an extremely well paying job for doing extremely little work anyone could do but he has the right credentials to attain it (vet military)

Anonymous

#1 3w

I have time to think about it for sure but my job I have after graduation gets 3 weeks PTO which is nice

Anonymous

OP 3w

That’s awesome! And if you’re planning to do so with a partner, remember that they’re here to help so that ur not alone- I rlly hope you can have a supportive enough community to have ur kids and also be successful!