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I’ve been debating people on this. It’s okay to have a type, but if you have a “race preference” when dating, you’re fucking racist. Not being attracted to an entire race is not a type, it’s racism.
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Anonymous 4w

Preference ≠ only thing you will consider

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Anonymous 4w

People have a type it’s not racist

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Anonymous 4w

I’m not sure if I agree. I’m a white girl and find myself attracted to Indian & black men mostly. I can’t help what I find attractive? Nothing wrong with not being either of those but I just adore the beauty of those people

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Anonymous 4w

my parents will disown me if i date outside of my race so i have been programmed i don’t even look at other races

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Anonymous 4w
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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Exactly. Like for example, blonde guys aren’t exactly my typical type which is a preference but I’d never say that all of them are unattractive and there’s no chance I’d date one. I don’t know why people think saying something like what I just said but with race is the same thing 😧

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I don’t think preferring one or a few races/ethnicities over others is racist though, a preference isn’t the same thing as a hard requirement

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I would never date a blonde man. No chance. Ugly to meeee

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I agree but at the same time, saying something like “I prefer white people” AS A WHITE PERSON BTW is crazy to me and call me too woke ig but I think it’s racist. Race is not a factor AT ALL when I’m looking to date.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Idk to say it’s ALWAYS racist I feel like is like saying it’s bigoted to be anything but pan. Which is of course not true unless you’re just actually a bigot. I think it absolutely CAN be racist. But I don’t think it always is racist

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

Unprogram yourself? You’re an adult act like one

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Key word mostly.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

I mean that’s a valid reason. You wouldn’t want to date someone your parents hate, they’re racist not you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

If my parents were that racist I wouldn’t want to know them and would be okay with being disowned

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

Sure but it’s not that simple. No one wants to be cut off from their entire support system.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

everyone says the same thing but i’d rather just date people in my race than deal with comments of my parents not liking them or my future children. it’s just easier.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

Yeah but they can’t act like they’re not in control of their own life as an adult. Sack up and grow up

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

and i can’t disown my parents they pay my way and im not giving that up bc they don’t like a boy i date. it is never that serious

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

Mhm mhm and racist. You’re part of the problem babes. You’re allowing for your parents to be utter piece of shits that personally, the world would be a better place with out

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

Okay mister high and mighty, let’s see how quickly you get disowned 😭 like we knowww it’s bad but I can’t pay for college without my parents help. I don’t want to be homeless.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

Okay? I’m sorry but you’re not acting like an adult. Grow the fuck up and stop being a racist piece of shit like your parents

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

Explain how me avoiding getting disowned makes me a racist. To be clear I do not believe the same things as them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

“Your parents have opinions about who you date! You’re a racist piece of shit for not dating outside your race!!!1!1 disown your parents and get into an interracial relationship immediately or you’re not an adult!!!1!!”

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

You’re actively allowing and abetting in racism. You’re saying “I won’t date any other skin color”. Speaks volumes that you’d rather play colonizer than be a decent human

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

“You’re a colonizer!! Just get into an interracial relationship right now or else! Or else you’re not a decent human being!!”

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

This is not an excuse

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

No, don’t act like a colonizer if you don’t want to be one. As in: don’t be racist and refuse to date others based on how much of a certain chemical they have in their epithelial tissue

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

“You can’t have a preference or you’re raaaaaccciiiissttttt. Clearly the reason for your romantic PrEdJuDicE is solely because of MELANIN in skin cells and not any other reason you’ve listed. COLONIZERRRRR 🫵🫵🫵🫵 interracial relationship and apology video with tears NEOOWWWW”

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Well excluding every other race other than yours isn’t a preference, it’s racism (by definition)

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

I can’t keep doing this. But I just want you to know that you sound actually insane. Please refer to my first comments on this thread.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

^^^^ THIS RIGHT HERE IS EXACTLY WHAT IM SAYING AND IDK WHY SOME OF YALL DONT GET THAT

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

And you’re a racist ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

Because….?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

You’re excluding people based on the color of their skin

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

I am…?

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