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I’ve been debating people on this. It’s okay to have a type, but if you have a “race preference” when dating, you’re fucking racist. Not being attracted to an entire race is not a type, it’s racism.
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Anonymous 10w

Preference ≠ only thing you will consider

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Anonymous 10w

People have a type it’s not racist

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Anonymous 10w

I’m not sure if I agree. I’m a white girl and find myself attracted to Indian & black men mostly. I can’t help what I find attractive? Nothing wrong with not being either of those but I just adore the beauty of those people

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Anonymous 10w
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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Exactly. Like for example, blonde guys aren’t exactly my typical type which is a preference but I’d never say that all of them are unattractive and there’s no chance I’d date one. I don’t know why people think saying something like what I just said but with race is the same thing 😧

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

I don’t think preferring one or a few races/ethnicities over others is racist though, a preference isn’t the same thing as a hard requirement

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

I would never date a blonde man. No chance. Ugly to meeee

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

I agree but at the same time, saying something like “I prefer white people” AS A WHITE PERSON BTW is crazy to me and call me too woke ig but I think it’s racist. Race is not a factor AT ALL when I’m looking to date.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Idk to say it’s ALWAYS racist I feel like is like saying it’s bigoted to be anything but pan. Which is of course not true unless you’re just actually a bigot. I think it absolutely CAN be racist. But I don’t think it always is racist

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Key word mostly.

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