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what vibrator should i get if ive never even fingered myself like im genuinely scared
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Anonymous 1w

it might honestly be better to spend some time getting comfortable with yourself and figuring out how and where you like to be touched first. some people (like myself) only like external touch when it comes to solo time, others prefer an internal toy. get past the fear (or shame?) first, figure out what you like, and then narrow it down from there

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Anonymous 1w

get the little purple bullet from walmart 🙂‍↕️ it’s like $15 and is so worth it

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Anonymous 1w

..what are you afraid of?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

my anatomy tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

why? can you elaborate?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

some people just aren’t fully secure down there due to stereotypes. and other things like vaginismus could be at play too. but ofc it could not be either of those things and something else!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

YESSS I was gonna recommend that one too she’s been with me for over a year and still kicking 🥹

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

i need to order a charger for it because i lost it 😫 but i SWEAR by that little thing. it is soo good

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

that’s actually exactly it 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

i wish you the best of luck with that 🙂‍↕️ i know it it not easy to overcome and can be really difficult. just take it one step at a time, ofc if it is something youd like to overcome

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