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Friend attempted to unalive himself last night and found out this morning and went to see him in the hospital after work. I see my bf tonight, he asks me for a massage cause he had a long day surfing. No questions or concerns. Relationship? Mmm over
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Anonymous 1d

Good for you. Never stay with someone selfish with no empathy. You’re a good person and I’m so happy that your friend is alive. ❤️

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Anonymous 1d

I’m sorry he didn’t check on you. I’m not defending him because I don’t know but I work in a hospital while I’m in school and I’m terrible at therapeutic communication when someone’s upset and I never know what to do especially being on adhd and depression meds, I just feel blank and can come off as a bitch

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

Thanks I will take that into consideration when I talk to him. He doesn’t work or anything mostly just video games and surfing. He does have adhd but so do I. I can cut him some slack but I just feel like if it was him I’d be there for him ya know?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

Oh yeah I get that, and your feelings are totally valid and I’m not trying to excuse him, but I know how my meds alter my personality

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