Girl Talk on Sidechat | having plans with a friend and suddenly her boyf decides tonight is date night. we’ve had these plans for this for a week but god fucking forbid she actually keeps them.

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having plans with a friend and suddenly her boyf decides tonight is date night. we’ve had these plans for this for a week but god fucking forbid she actually keeps them.

Anonymous 6w

i get out of class at 1. it takes an hour to get home. i text her “hey i should be home by two when you wanna come over?” (she knows ive had class) “im also a ways out, so 2-3 ish or 7-9 ish?” “5-6ish?” “oh (boyf) wants to take me out tonight and i think he might propose” “okay we’ll do 2-3ish” at 2- “hey im home just let me know when you wanna come over” “how long is the movie? i have to pick up (brother) from the bus at 4” “2 hours…” “oh okay”

Anonymous 6w

Is this boyfriend trustworthy? Sometimes they sabotage plans with friends on purpose so they can be controlling and abusive

Anonymous 6w

I feel you, had the reverse happen to me with my situationship where we planned a date and each fucking time the date was supposed to happen it was some lame excuse why they had to see the friend they just hung out with the past 3 days

Anonymous

OP 6w

like why even offer up coming over at 2 or 3 if you know you have to be somewhere by 4.

Anonymous

#2 6w

i don’t hate the guy but i don’t think he likes me very much. me and my friend are on the phone a lotttt and he gets kinda weird over it. but he’s not really like that with her other friends. although i wouldn’t put it past him to plan this last minute to try and fuck up girls night

Anonymous

OP 6w

Yeah that’s not normal behavior. Also if he’s trying to isolate her, he’ll do it gradually so she doesn’t notice. He won’t attack all her friends because that would make her suspicious. He would probably start with the convenient friends to get rid of (like those she had a fight with) or the ones who are most involved in her life (like you).

Anonymous

OP 6w

I lowk think my ex might have been trying to do this to me. It started with male friends. He’d get suspicious of them and then accuse them of trying to get with me. One at a time. Then after he met one of my best friends, he started telling me how pretty she was. At the time I just thought “Yeah she’s awesome”, but now I think maybe he wanted be to be jealous or something. I’m not 100% sure if this was his intent, but I didn’t trust him enough to stick around.

Anonymous

OP 6w

Oh and my mom. He started talking about how he hated my mom. When she’s literally one of the most empathic people I know. Yeah, once you throw that into the mix, I think he was trying to isolate me.

Anonymous

OP 6w

But like this wasn’t all at once. It was over the course of a couple years. He would target one person in my social circle at a time and try to make me stop liking them.