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my bf declined my call and said he’s “not available” after i asked what he is up to he said he has a girl over i asked if he was serious and he said he was joking i’ve caught him cheating once before, am i overreacting? i don’t think it was funny
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Anonymous 1d

Ngl if you’re going to get back with a cheater you can’t expect faithfulness. You’d be stupid to trust him again and now he knows it because you were stupid enough to forgive the first time. Not trying to be harsh but that’s how men/cheaters see it.

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Anonymous 1d

girl that message alone would have me blocking him and never speaking again. he just joked about something he SHOULD feel immense shame and guilt over. he doesn't care tht he cheated and u forgiving him and taking him back honestly probably has him feeling invincible in the relationship. don't let him walk all over u

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Anonymous 1d

They do it once they’ll do it again. Idk how people can get back with cheaters. They never change. I’m sorry you are going through this, you aren’t over reacting, but you do DESERVE better! A person who really loves you wouldn’t ever think to cheat.

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Anonymous 1d

If he’s cheated 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧, dump the bastard. He doesn’t deserve you.

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Anonymous 1d

That’s not funny

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Anonymous 1d

we also live 7 hours away from each other rn which i think is adding to my anxiety with this

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Anonymous 1d

First time should have been the dealbreaker immediately. Time to drop him.

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