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Girl Talk 11w
how do I become not codependent w my boyfriend no glue no borax
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Anonymous 11w

set healthy boundaries

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Anonymous 11w

Honestly this is fucking corny but I read this book: “The Mastery of Love” by Don Miguel Ruiz and it actually genuinely changed my life and the way I think about my relationships; and as someone who was previously very anxious in my relationships and was pretty dependent, I’m actually mostly cured now so highly recommend and hope it works as well for u as it did for me!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

It’s a rlly short read too— also my bf read it a year after I read it (we were having other unrelated problems due to being LD and I recommended it to him) and it then somehow cured our relationship a SECOND TIME, and we really are very happy together and going on 3 years now so I genuinely couldn’t recommend the book more tbh

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