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I got SA’d and part of me still forgives him. I know I should be mad, it’s embarrassing that I’m not more upset with what happened to me I just don’t know what to do anymore. I feel like I’m tearing my relationship with my boyfriend apart because of this
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Anonymous 1d

In no way are you obligated to feel any certain way. It’s something that takes a huge toll mentally, like how everyone grieves differently, there’s no set or “right” way to mentally respond. If you’re with someone that doesn’t understand that, you probably need to have a really deep convo. Or if he refuses to see your side of things I’d rethink the relationship 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

We’ve been talking about it for awhile and he is entirely on my side. It’s been like 3 weeks since it happened and I just feel like I’m at this weird point where I don’t know how to move on. Idk, it’s just a lot and I want it to be over with I guess

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