as hard as it is, the amount of time you guys have been together doesnt at all dictate the quality of the relationship. if youre unhappy, you have a right to leave at any point. ((easier said than done))

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almost the exact same thing happened to me. i left him 8 months ago and i have genuinely never been happier im thriving now. i know its a long time to have been together, but you need to be with someone who makes you feel great🩷

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I was in a relationship for about 4 1/2 years and it was downhill for I think 2 of those years and I wish I ended it sooner (luckily my ex ended it) and unfortunately years don’t make up for the fact that things aren’t working. You gotta do what’s best

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The constant dismissal of my feelings like it’s something I can just turn off is exhausting I’m finding myself happier when he’s not around we have 3 cats together an apartment I took out a loan to help him and I’m a full time student like genuinely what the fuck do I do

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He hasn’t once in the past month been empathetic or even a bit understanding

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