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my best friend lied to me and then lied to me about lying to me. i’m so sad and it’s affecting me so much :(
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Anonymous 1d

Aw ik it hurts but ending that friendship is for the best

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

it’s definitely a niche situation so it wouldn’t feel right to just drop her, but i am really upset. she promised and promised and promised she was telling the truth and then she finally came clean. it’s making me question so many things about myself

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Why is it making you question your self and not your friend’s integrity?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

because i asked her a million times if something was up because i just felt it in my bones and she kept telling me no. she gaslit me and told me it was in my head and that im thinking too much into it, when I was in fact correct. it just makes me question what else she’s lied about and how much truth i don’t know.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

It might save you some energy to consider what she could’ve lied to you about is in the past, and how she treats you right now is what matters. Idk how I could be friends or nice to someone who was actively manipulating and being dishonest despite any situation. Just doesn’t seem worth it in both energy and time

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