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I want to be intimate but sex lokey scares me like having something going IN my vag is terrifying I alr get uncomfy with things around there any advice?
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Anonymous 5d

Okay first of all, have someone you have a connection with believe don’t just let it be a hook up (I made that mistake), foreplay is really important so both of you get aroused it won’t go in dry, make sure you guys talk to each other before on what to do and what not to do. But first before having sex try and become more familiar with your body make yourself comfortable with and ALWAYS USE A CONDOM. Also if you are scared that the condom did not protect you can go get a plan b.

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some people also just don’t like to have sex, or at least penetrative sex and that’s ok. you’ll figure yourself out. intimacy doesn’t have to look just one certain way. you might find that you like certain acts and not others. like #1 said, it’s important to go into it with someone you trust wholeheartedly and feel comfortable with, because there might be some awkward moments, some laughing, and a whole lot of figuring stuff out. the right person won’t pressure you

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