Anonymous slutty_anakin 25w

Good for you

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Anonymous #5 25w

What’s this again

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Anonymous OP 25w

The anti adoption safe haven box thing. Just say you don’t care about infants and go girl

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Anonymous #5 25w

Who girl? I don’t care about infants bc I don’t want them bought and sold like animals? Okay then

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Anonymous OP 25w

I was adopted, does that mean I was bought like cattle? Say yes, I dare you.

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Knew I was who? Who is this mysterious person

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Anonymous #5 25w

Yes if it was thru the American private pro profit industry

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Who?

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The American private adoption industry treats all adoptees like that, it’s sickening

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Anonymous OP 25w

Girl shut the fuck up

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Anonymous #5 25w

Girl are you okay?

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Anonymous OP 25w

Are you?

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Anonymous #5 25w

Are you?

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Anonymous OP 25w

Ofc I am, I have a loving family. Clearly you don’t

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Anonymous #5 25w

Yikes

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Anonymous OP 25w

Someone should’ve adopted you from the parents that failed you

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Anonymous #5 25w

Disgusting

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Giving me the same energy for being anti human trafficking? Yikes

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Anonymous OP 25w

There are def issues with the adoption industry and there are def issues of human trafficking but claiming all adoption = human trafficking is insulting to real trafficking victims. I hope you get the help you need girl

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Anonymous #5 25w

Do you know who Georgia tann is? Have you done any research on the industry? You appear uniformed. And I’m good girl, but thanks for your concerns

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Are you aware of the history at all?

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Rage bait? Sorry selling children like cattle is disgusting to me. Get well soon

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Anonymous OP 25w

I am. You appear uninformed though if you don’t know the nuance of the whole situation. And since you clearly don’t care about anything but bashing something what while does have issues, but also has saved lives, ima keep it there and say I hope both sides of your pillow are warm and hope you one day actually educate yourself and get the therapy you need. Have a horrendous night sweetheart.

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Oreos are good

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Anonymous #5 25w

What do I seem uniformed on Who am I bashing?

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Hell yeah, ofc

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Why would I be anti choice?? You guys keep missing the point

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And you hope it’s terrible bc I want families to stay together when possible and avoid needless trauma? I’ll sleep very well, thank you

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Sure give me like 15 mins

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Ofc children should not stay with unsafe caretakers, what gave you the impression I thought they should? The whole point is child centered care. Which is not what American private adoption is. Hence why I’m against it. It puts the adoptive parent first like when we ask questions like “well what are the ppl who want kids who can’t have them supposed to do” which is not the question we should ask. We should “what’s the safest care option possible for the child in question”

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The point is that Millie is not engaging in child centered care. She’s engaging in a for profit industry with roots in human trafficking to suit her needs of wanting to parent. That seeks out mothers in need (which usually involves coercing them into relinquishing rights) instead of what’s best for the baby, which is staying with their mother. Something like 98% of birth moms would keep their child if they had the funds. The birth parents need help not to have their child sold

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Ofc I would want them separated from unsafe homes?

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Yeah I never said that wasn’t the safest option sometimes? Wdym dense, you’re still not getting it

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It doesn’t necessarily put them in a better position, just a different one. And the point of foster homes are family reunification, they’re not an alternative to adoption. And there aren’t as many checks after the adoption is finalized which is why many adoptees are subject to more abuse when compared to non adopted children

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I only agree with adoption in America when they’re 18+ and can consent to it

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If it’s genuinely an unsafe home there are much better external care options than adopting out to strangers. In this case fictive kin legal guardianship would be the best option

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It’s not just adoption or homelessness. Those aren’t the only options. You’re leaving out a lot of external care options that are much more suited to different families

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