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Ladies, have yall ever gotten over your first love/first breakup/first person you had sex with? Does it truly get better with time or am I cooked (broiled even 😪)
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Anonymous 11w

girl i just dreamed about him last night and we havent spoken in 6 years either im cooked or we both are

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Anonymous 11w

Yes ofc it gets better.

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Anonymous 11w

It’s like you took the question right out of my mind 😵‍💫

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Anonymous 11w

we all are broiled that’s my husband for life

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Anonymous 11w

It def gets better. It took me almost three years to get over my high school ex. But after a lot of self reflection (and better sex with much hotter men) I found what I now want and what I offer to relationships

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Anonymous 11w

girl he was my first EVERYTHING and i stopped crying after like 3 days😭

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Anonymous 11w

For me yeah absolutely we’re in the same friend group now so we get along pretty well and he actually gets along great with my current boyfriend (they are 2 of 3 straight men/people in the group so they understand each other better) at a certain point you just gotta remind yourself you broke up for a reason and that you just don’t work together but that’s ok

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Anonymous 11w

i don't even think about them anymore. so yes definitely, it helps when enough time has passed for u to look back and get ur rose colored glasses off

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Anonymous 11w

That’s why waiting for marriage is in the Bible bc you get soul ties before mariage from sex 💔 learned the hard way

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

He broke up w me and now has a new gf. Ik it was probably a blessing in disguise but I feel so rejected and just not good enough. I’m rlly trying to move on but I’m scared to open up again and get shut down. I can’t go forward but if I keep dwelling on the past it’ll kill me 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 11w

This gives me hope, I have to break up with my first everything and I’m worried I’ll be a wreck

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 11w

u will be a wreck, but when ur past it it'll have been so worth it if it's what u want

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 11w

you WILL be a wreck, i couldn’t stop crying at ALL those 3 days( at work, at home, driving, etc) but the fourth day i literally woke up and nothing. i was still saddened ofc but nothing you can’t recover from.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 11w

I lowkey just wanna be done wallowing before my vacation. Does finding a distraction help at all or do I just need to focus on it?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

you got this girl i understand how that feels and you realize its for the better. Throw yourself into things you love and hang out with friends, and search for smth that’ll make you feel loved and cared for

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