
girl… i obviously don’t know your situation or circumstances or relationship so im not gonna pretend like i do, im just gonna say- when someone shows you who they are the first time , believe them. he’s already shown you & he even showed you he doesn’t care by saying he wants to go no contact after HE asked how you were.
that’s him playing mind games to keep the ball in his court and to keep ahold of you, he now thinks “oh, i can check in bc ik she’ll respect my wishes of no contact, but she cant contact me,” SO. I’m just saying. respect is a two way road and I ain’t seein it here. just be careful, it’s a slippery slope