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Hot take: stop saying ppl(women) don’t have self respect for doing hus. Some people enjoy casual sex and have enough respect for themselves not to care ab societal opinions ab it. It’s stupid
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Anonymous 7w

It pushes purity culture and patriarchal standards for women when y’all say this

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Anonymous 7w

YUP like as long as yall are safe and consensual I don’t give a fuck. There’s no such thing as ‘ran through’ unless ur emotionally damaging every girl you have sex with- and at that point it’s a diff problem, no?

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Anonymous 7w

virginity is just a social construct overall

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Anonymous 7w

no cause since when was slut shaming a "femenist" thing but fucking around/ deciding to have the kid not? 😭 i feel like we're losing the plot

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Anonymous 7w

if this is in response to my post (saying i have too much self respect for random hookups) i’m only saying i respect myself too much to fuck a man who genuinely wouldn’t care if i lived or died. trust and believe i love me some casual hookups when the passion is there and i’d never slut shame another woman for doing so

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Anonymous 7w

That’s bc she was doing it for the wrong reasons and likely as a form of self harm. That doesn’t mean every woman does

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Anonymous 7w

Sure ofc there is but I’m talking about how people automatically assume a woman doesn’t respect herself for doing so. Or wearing revealing clothing or whatever the case is

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

No omg😭 I totally got what you were saying but it did remind me of it that’s why I posted LOL I’m mainly talking ab ppl saying it for others bc everyone knows themself

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

yes ofc have fun ladies but remember even if it’s temporary you still deserve to be worshipped😌😌

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

amen to that 🙂‍↕️🙏

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