Im into some weird stuff but honestly only bc i know my partner 100% respects me and cares for me and wouldn’t like it if it didn’t cause me pleasure.

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And finding someone who loves and cares for you/just plain respects you is kinda rare so that’s why so much shit is made up to try to fill a void where those needs aren’t being met in intimacy 👀

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Even if things like cnc are technically consensual it’s like heyyyy so you’d find pleasure in hypothetically hurting me alright uh whatever makes you feel powerful buddy (if that’s what it takes then they’re a loser)

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People with a rape kink. You’re telling me that playing out a rape makes you feel better bc you think you’re in control??? Also men who have it just scare the absolute fuck out of me. Btw this is not me judging how SA or rape victims cope im just confused and uh lowkey scared.

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I have t had a cnc kink but I say this as someone who had some kinks in the past that changed once I unpacked stuff and respected myself more so

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It feels like you’re more interested in saying certain kinks are weird for the sake it than actually wanting to know experiences from ppl who have said kinks, so I’m not even going to bother explaining.

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