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Girl Talk 2w
I’m considering breaking up with my long term boyfriend but i’m just scared to be alone. I haven’t been single since I was 17 (21 now) and I just don’t know what it’s like being single in my 20s… idk i’m just scared esp cuz i’m graduating this may
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Anonymous 2w

if u don’t want to be w him break up w him. it’s better to navigate being single and talking around to guys and finding a guy you genuinely want to be with rather than staying with someone who you aren’t 100% happy w. you don’t want to regret that later in life. breaking up and doing what’s best for you will be worth it

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Anonymous 2w

I understand but it’ll be okay

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Anonymous 2w

I just did something similar in November where I broke off my relationship that had lasted since I was 17 to now (20). I promise that it sucks in the moment but later on you start to find yourself again. I know that sounds really cliché, but I finally have more time for things that I love to do and be around people who make me happy

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Anonymous 2w

the fact that you’re scared to be alone is reason enough to be single. that’s a really pathetic foundation to build womanhood on

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

I really hope that you find the strength to do it because you deserve somebody who doesn’t make you question whether or not you want to be with them. It is a really hard thing to do, but I promise you it’s worth it in the end. Sending you lots of love 🫶

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